Shinoda Mariko (Mariko-san) / 1st Generation

Discussion in 'AKB48 Graduated Members' started by Datalanche, Jun 10, 2007.

  1. NEVBOSS

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    So you are saying there's a possiblity of Shinoda might be the clean one because, say the 116mins are missing?
    That's interesting.
     
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  2. wlerin

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    It would be a very slim possibility, especially given other evidence. Mainly what I'm saying is that this small fraction of the conversation does not present us with even close to the full picture.
     
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  3. x_lambs

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    Marriages fail and affairs happen. Mariko is not a villain. She is such a boss her husband proposed on the first date. Mariko was impressed enough to give it a try but she’s not going to turn into sub waifu overnight. People rarely change. Husband likely in love with Mariko idol and thought he could own her with a ring. Wrong

    I think Mariko feels bad for what she did, getting caught and the public scandal. I still love her though. Ue Kara eien teenager. I hope the Japanese public don’t turn all original sin and hate on her like stage48 is doing.


    お願いします
     
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  4. souchan48

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    Yas Girlboss
    Yas queen

    Even if u cheat

    Girls are never wrong

    Hell killing are never wrong esp if it is done by women

    Because..
    Well..

    #GirlBoss

    And men are scum!
     
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  5. Popuri

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    This is... such a bad take.

    Liking Mariko, particularly as an idol, has nothing to do with her being right or wrong in this situation. You're free to like her all you want, but if she did cheat, then she was in the wrong, period. Cheating is bad regardless, but especially when you're married and have a kid. If Mariko cheated, then it's her fault for the marriage falling apart and her child having to deal with divorced parents for the rest of her life. This is not to be taken lightly. I agree we don't have to villainize Mariko, but it seems to me that because you like her, you think what she did isn't that bad, not for one moment considering her daughter, which is what actually matters in this situation. This isn't some Mariko vs. her husband thing. This is a very unfortunate private matter and a family trying to solve it, which shouldn't ever have been made public for us to see, tbh.
     
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  6. NEVBOSS

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    instead of calling a fraction, it's more like the core of the talk.
    did Shinoda defended herself in any way when being accused throughout the convo? all she said is the husband is disturbing for going through her phone & line.
    when his husband told her that she ruined her children future by her cheating, did she refuted? if there's really something to say to defend herself, shouldn't she said it there instead of apologizing and keep asking for chances?
    when she about to suicide, what did she said? she said she's a bad mom

    idk, you seem to have this wishful hope that the missing recording could somehow turned this 4mins convo.
     
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  7. x_lambs

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    Both partners are important to raising a child. If the man cheats, oh well, he's a cheater. If a woman cheats, OMG sHe'f forsaking the future of her chiDren o_O
    there were rumors of Kawasaki Nozomi's husband running wild and the reaction has just , well he was a player before so nozofisu should have known better /shrug

    you sound very nice and I'm glad we are both AKB48 fans. but I didn't need permission to like Mariko. and i think you are high horsing abit about the family breakup. I agree divorce is very unfortunate, but plenty of children and parents are able to overcome it. Mariko's daughter is very young, there were comments on her Instagram about how the girl will grow and hear the recording and will hate Mariko. and who do we think would play that recording for the daughter 10 years from now? My guess it would be the cuckold Dad still bitter. And I also agree it's very unfortunate that the recording (unconfirmed) leaked. but it does sound like our Mariko. the clip I heard was very disturbing and it bothers me people are getting off on hearing her crying. Even if it is just a little bit fascinating :fp:

    someone else said that the husband is handling it well. if he recorded mariko without permission and then leaked it, i would not consider it well handled. but i don't know how the recording got out there.
     
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  8. Jay1

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    Those of you that are defending Mariko, I hope you can do the same when your wife pulls a Mariko on you. You guys are beyond disgusting.
     
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  9. Aka

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    Why do "you" always have to make this a man vs. woman case? Charles III and Diana were heavy cheaters and yet she was "the people's princess", not Charles. Although I have to admit that calling Charles "the people's princess" would sound extremly odd.

    If she did what she did then no one can exactly defend her just because one used to like her when she was an idol. You can appreciate Maradona as one of the greatest football players of all time while admiting he was a fucking junkie. Making fun of his husband calling him a bitter cuck is trying to make the victim the villain of this story, I'm not really sure why.
     
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  10. Cop pop

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    Despite how much u guys are trying to defend her...it ain't going to change the fact that Mariko cheated--->got caught---> now her husband filled a lawsuit against her (end of story) & this is what happening right now, comrade. Time to accept the fact :gavel:
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    That's wishful thinking. She cannot escape it, especially when she's public figure. (it's not like I support hate comments, but criticizing toward cheating behavior is something it's bound to happen)

    Hmmm..Interesting comments from you. I'm not sure where you got this kind of concept. But lemme help u open ur eyes. In ken watabe case, if you aren't blind, you will know how much he was criticized & how much this affects his career. or if it's not enough evidence for u. We still have Masahiro case. As u can see, both Masahiro & erika's career are fxcked up because of their cheating scandal. It's not end just " woww, he is cheater" and that's it. There's always consequences to their own action. And I'm pretty sure that Mariko cannot escape this.
     
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  11. souchan48

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    I would call them delusional.
    I think people forget that she is in a DOUBLe FURIN situation

    That means she is not only a cheater but also a HOMERWRECKER
    Huh? Who said that? Cheating is bad. Regardless of ur gender. I dont see anyone defending Tsumabuki Satoshi or blaming Anne when Anne is getting cheated at. Same thing with Nakama Yukie.

    In kawasaki nozomi's case, then yeah..that husband is a scum.
     
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  12. wlerin

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    Nah.

    To be clear I'm not defending Mariko. Cheating is wrong, and destructive, and hurtful. Faithfulness and trust are the foundation of healthy relationships. I just also find what little we've seen of her husband's behaviour reproachable. This should never have gone as public as it did, especially if he truly cares for his daughter as he claims in those audio clips.

    Of course, the leak may not have come from his side at all.

    No, it's not the core at all. It's the emotional breakdown. The climax. As someone else put it, emotional or relationship porn. Would you watch just the climax of a movie, or read the climax of a book and think you understood what it was all about? And relationships are even more complicated than any book or movie.

    The rest of the conversation could even redeem her husband's callousness, depending on what all was said. A lot of the things he says in these clips, particularly in regard to Mei, just seem so completely unnecessary, but maybe they would seem less so if we heard the other ~93% of what was said (it's 8 minutes out of 120, not 4 minutes.)
     
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  13. shinra94

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    Mariko's a scumbag. Fact. She destroyed her family for some sex and no amount of back and forth alters that. Divorce is a thing if you no longer want your current partner. No need to be disgusting about it and shame yourself.
     
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  14. dutchie

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    I truly wonder if the people who use words like 'scumbag', 'disgusting' etc. would use them if the cheating party would be a brother or a sister (or even a really good friend)

    btw, I'll just drop this here, make of it what you want:
    https://flipjapanguide.com/cheating-in-japan/
     
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  15. Aka

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    The last time I saw, Mariko is not the brother or sister of any of us. By that logic you can't call Trump an idiot because he has a wife and kids, Putin isn't a murderer because he also has a family. Every shooter in the United States had parents. No, I'm not comparing what Mariko did to those douchebags, but every public figure you criticize has parents, siblings, friends. And if you can't badmouth them because of that then everyone is a bloody saint. Would I call Mariko a scumbag were she my sister? Hell no, I'm not even doing it now. But if she's really a scumbag or disgusting it won't matter what I call her or not. Or do you want me to believe that @dutchie never said the words "son of a bitch" in his whole life? Well, he does love to call others dumb when they have family.
     
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    after see her insta post, is she pregnant now??
     
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    Perhaps but we dont know whose child it is

    She could check her separate menstruation schedule though
     
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  20. bonjourmarlene

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    What??? I'm so confused. All I can see is her post adamantly saying she hasn't cheated, and the second one saying happy new year. Neither of these mention or even hint at pregnancy.
     
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